"I can almost see you"
So this is my favorite picture of you. When we went to the coast and went camping with Ethelyn. This picture gives me peace now a days. I look at you at the beach and hope that wherever you are, it's half as beautiful as you are in this picture. I was talking to my friend Susan a few weeks ago and she was telling me when Daniel died she would have to put him "somewhere else" to give her peace for a while. When I have to be really strong and keep it together I put you here. I put you at the Cannon beach on the Oregon coast, right on the beach on a sunny day.
Before you left us I had been wedding dreaming. I have been thinking about the perfect place to have my wedding, what my colors would be, what we'd have for dinner at the reception. I think about it now and get sad that you wont be there. I just made a decision, right now. I want to married on the beach right where this photo was taken. Cause then I could see you, and feel you, and you could be there, with all of us, the way it should have been. I know you'd like that. You loved the coast. We should have gone back there again. I remember when no one wanted to swim with us in the ocean because it was too cold. We were the only ones. We went out as far as we could walk without getting swept away. Jumping each wave as it rolled in towards the beach. And when we came in to have snacks I remember all we could think was how salty everything was, and just how cold the water really was, even for a 4th of July weekend. I will go in February or March just when its starting to warm up. I'd love to go back there with you.
You know I associate everything with music. Usually I hear a song and I like to paint music videos in my head. This time I have this picture and I know there's beautiful music playing, but I figured no song in the world could ever capture what I see in this picture. But I found one. There are no words. No words in the English language could express what I see in this picture. I was listening to kid Cudi on the ferry ride to Kitsap when Pandora flipped to this song. I feel like in the moments before we docked as I was watching the waves on the water, you found just the perfect song that I needed to hear. It's kinda cool that the song title is "I can almost see you", because I almost can. Like the day the photo was taken. Sun glistening on the water like millions of tiny diamonds in the sea, and the wind blowing our hair, and preventing you from lighting your cigarette. I can almost see you.